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For
many of us, in our own estimation, life is incredibly busy. It
seems as though we never stop; even when we sleep it is as if
we are constantly pursuing something. We have had so many
innovations in our time which have made life easier and
quicker in so many ways, but more impersonal and hurried in
others. What we do in public has taken on a whole new level of
exposure, and thus has thrust our personal/private lives and
views into the realm of public, and world-wide at that.
With
the advances of our time has come the widespread usage of the
internet, or the “world-wide-web.” Gone are the days when
taking a picture, having it developed, and then placing it in
a photo album on your coffee table in your home (or maybe
getting double-prints and sharing one copy) was as far as a
picture went. Now, not only can you take a picture (and/or
video) with a device smaller than your palm, but you can
instantly post it to the “world-wide-web” for all to see
and share world-wide. This is the nature of the culture we now
live in. Your picture, your conduct, your reputation, your
influence is up for grabs anywhere, anytime, any day . . .
maybe even in High-Definition.
This
is nothing new to many of us who have adopted and embraced
much of modern technology. We see it as a necessary evil and
judge it an acceptable risk for using technology. Some of
those who may read this are very familiar with how all of this
technology works and its inner workings; others may have had
no idea the capacity for good and evil, nor the exposure which
the internet and handheld devices provides until this point.
Regardless of our level of understanding, or very blissful
ignorance, one fact cannot escape those of us who wear the
name of Christian: our life is on display in more ways than we
can imagine, the internet being just one facet of our already
busy and very public lives. With very few exceptions,
private life does not exist when it comes to social
networks/social media/e-mail or anything which touches the
internet . . . to quote a brother recently, “What part of
‘world-wide’ web do you not understand?”
Personally,
I have faced a dilemma which I am sure other readers have also
faced. The dilemma is “what do I say” or “do I say
anything?” once I have witnessed with my own eyes something
posted on a brother or sister’s webpage that does not befit
the conduct, dress, attitude, language, and/or reputation of a
Christian. Of course, if I view this online then it is a
public matter, to which I have tried to call public attention
to the sin.
A
word to those who waver on this decision of whether to
confront those in sin when it is discovered online . . . you
may possibly be met with accusations of just trying to find
dirt on people, “you’re spying on me,” or you have
ill-intentions toward that brother/sister. Of course, because
we understand the embarrassment of the individual when he is
discovered, which one of us is gleeful when he is caught
dead-to-rights in his sin (Gal.6:1)? Focus on the sin
and getting that corrected. Do not let defensive attitudes and
emotions discourage you from doing what you know to be right,
according to God’s word.
If
you confront a brother or sister, the same rules apply, do it
in all humility, considering yourself lest you also fall into
the same things (Gal. 6:1; 1 Cor. 10:12). Always be
sure to bring the discussion back to whether or not sin has
taken place publicly for all to see and emphasize the fact
that it must be corrected publicly, according to God’s word,
if that is found to be the case. There is no difference in
seeing a brother sin in public or hearing of it and
confronting him about it and it happening online. Once again,
it is certainly not our place to be policemen and spy on each
other and try to play “gotcha!”- Christianity and go
looking for people to fall. But let me strongly urge each of
us to love each other enough to have the courage to say what
needs to be said. Let none of us stay silent because we are
afraid of upsetting someone. That does nothing but condemn
both our souls to hell for seeing our brother/sister in sin
and saying nothing (James 4:17; Ezek. 3:18-19).
Furthermore,
some go so far as to say/think that just because they are
behind closed doors in the privacy of their home that whatever
they do online is private. This is foolish, and these
individuals need educating. Just because we are online, in
privacy as we see it, does not exempt us from conducting
ourselves as Christians on the premise that we can hide behind
a username.
That
being said, it is hard for me to wrap my head around (or grasp
the logic) of how someone can upload his own picture (or being
tagged on someone else’s picture) to the internet, place it
on their account, and agree to share it with all of their
“friends/contacts” on a site, but then emphatically claim
that it is a private matter. Some caught in their sins online
act as if any reader who addresses the sin is the one at fault
for bringing it up and they are the victim, acting as if
anyone who sees this picture or video is akin to being a
peeping tom outside their home. Sin, no matter in what
context, venue, or by what means it is noticed/discovered will
condemn one’s soul to hell, plain and simple; it must be
corrected. Pictures, videos, or words said online are all
pretty solid pieces of evidence of public sin. Since things
done online are not done in a corner, it argues that we must
be upright in all we do, for we do not know when our sin will
find us out if we are being immoral (it could show up online
within a matter of minutes!). Furthermore, what
pictures/videos/comments others post of us, what we post
ourselves, and so forth must also reflect the conduct and life
of a Christian. There is no difference in sinning publicly in
the real world and sinning in a virtual world online; it is
all public.
The
inner struggle over whether what is seen/heard on the
“world-wide-web” is a public sin which must be repented of
publicly, is what keeps many of us back from correcting those
we find (from God’s word) to be in error. So to this I quote
again, “what part of ‘world-wide’ do you not
understand?” Now, to answer the question of whether we
should refute sin publicly and admonish a brother/sister to
repent publicly when caught up in sin online, the answer is a
very simple and resounding, YES!
And
so it is imperative that we as Christians, the children of
God, conduct our lives according to the command of the Lord,
“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a
hill cannot be hidden. . . . Let your light so shine before
men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father
in heaven” (Matt. 5:14ff.). As the passage implies,
this light never goes out, it is always on display, and it
always shines brightly for all to see. Online or offline, we
are to shine our lights. (Just to cover every base, Matthew
18:15 does not apply when placed in the context of the
“world-wide-web.” I believe we can draw that simple
conclusion based off of the points and scripture quoted here
which show things published on the web are in public domain
rather than protected by privacy.)
Lastly,
just as sinning online is a very public matter which can cause
great harm to the individual and to the cause of Christ,
conversely the choice to shine our light online can be very
profitable to the cause of Christ. We must be wise in our
dealings, as always. Communicating online (e-mail, chat rooms,
social media, blogs) is unlike a hand-written letter where you
generally take the time to think out a matter. A word of
admonition for those of us who like to type a quick response:
let us all use restraint and think matters through biblically
and logically before we quickly shoot back with an answer
online, for that is also very public and in some cases
cannot/will not be removed once submitted (James 1:19-20).
This tool, the internet, which can be used for evil can also
be used to sow the seed and convert others to Christ. May we
use it in that way, and all shine our lights in whatever
capacity our abilities allow so the world may witness that
being a Christian is not just a name we wear but it is who we
are at all times.
Let’s
call sin what it is and not apologize for doing so, brethren.
The battle rages on (Eph. 6:10-13) for the souls of all
men, so let us be wise (Matt. 10:16), humble, and bold.
May none of us waver or grow weary in doing what we know to do
that is right. Heaven awaits the faithful, press on (Gal.
6:1-3; James 4:17; 2 Tim. 4:1-5; Eph. 5:15-17; Col. 4:5-6;
Prov. 3:4-6)
Matt
Adams
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